
This is a very sore and sensitive subject, but after last week's news of a somewhat famous preacher's suicide, I have been very troubled in spirit about the situation. It's not my wish to talk about this man, but about the subject of suicide in relation to eternal security.
First, I ask myself: "Can a Christian who is truly born again, commit suicide?" A Christian can commit any sin or work of the flesh, but when he does Proverbs 24:16 states that the just man gets back up again. There is no chance of "getting back up again" after this sin is committed and if a person is
contemplating suicide, he knows this and must already decide that he does not want to repent of his sin.
Second, I asked myself: "Are there any examples of believers who committed suicide in the Bible?" There are four cases of suicide that I can recall. The first was Samson in Judges 16 who said: "Let me die with the Philistines" but yet right before he did it, he called on God to strengthen Him to destroy the Philistines in his one last act of war against them for the sake of Israel. Would God give him
supernatural strength so he could kill himself? It seems from the tone of Samson's final prayer, that he was putting his trust in God for one last fight in which he knew he would die. I have to conclude that Samson's death was an act of self-sacrifice for his people. This would be akin to a soldier throwing himself on a grenade in order to save the men in his unit, knowing that it would cost him his life. Later on in Hebrews 11:32, we see Samson mentioned in the hall of the heroes of the faith.
The next people I see who commit suicide is Saul and his armor-bearer in I Samuel 34:4-5. I don't know much about the armor-bearer, but I do know about Saul's pattern of continual rebellion, unrepentant
stubbornness and
disobedience to God. Even though Samuel said that he would be with him the night before his death, this does not necessarily mean that he would be with Samuel in Paradise, but more likely with him in death. Saul never submitted himself to the Lord after the incident in 1 Samuel 15. I cannot conclude that Saul was a believer. His act of suicide was his last ditch attempt to keep himself in control of his own life and even his own death since he never let God be in control.
Then in 2 Samuel 17, we see
Ahithophel, David's chief of staff, betray David and turn to Absalom as a means of attempting to kill David. When his counsel was not heeded by Absalom, he knew that all would be lost and that he would die at the hand of David for his
treachery, and ends his life b y hanging himself.
The last person I can think of in the Bible who killed himself was Judas Iscariot who betrayed the Lord Jesus Christ and "went to his own place" (Acts 1:25) No need to explain here, that Judas was the ultimate example of an unbeliever and traitor with
Ahithophel as a similar character. So, I don't see any believer in Scripture committing suicide.
So, the question comes down to believing in eternal security or
perseverance of the saints. Those who believe in eternal security leave open the option of apostasy and unrepentant sin as a condition in which a person can finish his life and still go to heaven. This would be the only way to believe that someone who commits suicide goes to heaven. Can a Christian die in unrepentant sin or apostasy? Some may turn to:
1 Corinthians 11:29-30 For he that eateth and drinketh unworthily, eateth and drinketh damnation to himself, not discerning the Lord's body. 30 For this cause many are weak and sickly among you, and many sleep.
Claiming that those who took of the Lord's supper unworthily were Christians whom God judged and took to heaven
pre-maturely. However, I can't square with that based on the previous verse that says that they have eaten and drunk damnation to themselves.
The Bible says that there is no damnation/condemnation to those in Christ:
Romans 8:1 There is therefore now no condemnation to them which are in Christ Jesus, who walk not after the flesh, but after the Spirit.
Maybe one can say, that if the person who committed suicide was "In Christ" then he is certainly in heaven. But the person who is "in Christ" according to that verse is the person who walks not after the flesh but after the Spirit.
Now, I know you might ask: "well, are you not saved when you sin and walk in the flesh?" No, I'm still saved, but the mark of the believer is the one who repents and like Proverbs says: "Gets back up again". There is no getting back up after suicide, it's certainly not walking in the Spirit.
On the other hand,
perseverance of the saints teaches that God upholds the faith of the believer so that he can never fall ultimately (Jude 24) and that he his kept by the power of God through faith unto final salvation (I Peter 1:5). It is God's power that upholds our continued faith so that we finish our course, finish our fight and keep the faith (2 Timothy 4:7).
So, in conclusion, I cannot see how a person who commits suicide can be a truly saved person. Ultimately, I will leave that judgment in God's hands for the souls of those who do this, but I can't find any
substantiation for it in God's revelation. Let me just admonish you who read this with this verse:
Hebrews 3:12-13 Take heed, brethren, lest there be in any of you an evil heart of unbelief, in departing from the living God. But exhort one another daily, while it is called To day; lest any of you be hardened through the deceitfulness of sin.